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tr.v. spoon-ˇfed, (-fd) spoon-ˇfeedˇing, spoon-ˇfeeds
To feed (another) with a spoon.
To treat (another) in a way that discourages independent thought or action, as by overindulgence.
To provide (another) with knowledge or information in an oversimplified way.
To provide (knowledge or information) in an oversimplified way.
Most often on the forums, "spoon feeding" refers to posters who ask questions, and refuse to put any effort or thought into their questions, as well as the answers they receive. They expect every answer to be dumbed down to the last detail, and expect that everyone else do their research for them.
This is usually a characteristic of laziness, and not capability. Hence the saying, "I'm not handicapped, I'm just lazy."